listen. if your religion requires you to reject a part of yourself, its unhealthy.
if your religion condemns you for something you cant control its abusive.
if the people in your religious community encourage unhealthy behaviors, its straight up terrible and you have the right to leave.
spirituality is supposed to enlighten you and fill you with reason and passion and self. if it doesn’t do that, you don’t have to stay. you deserve to be happy.
canary and amane get away with their relationship because they’re lesbians and everyone in the zoldyck household is home of phobic: kikyo will be like “oh to be a young girl with friends to gossip with again” and gotoh is like (completely serious) “indeed what good friends yesterday I walked past them amane was very flushed and canary wouldn’t look at me they must have been discussing something secret and serious because they were so close i almost thought they were kissing when i rounded the corner anyways i think their friendship is quite beneficial to their work ethic they are very good butlers,” and then kikyo is like oh excellent and says something weird and shallow about women empowerment while canary and amane are literally making out in one of their rooms at the butler house. only tsubone knows and then they escape the zoldyck estate a la the handmaiden
